Our Season of Service

Inspired by some friends of our family, the Tucker family has decided to try a new way of exchanging Christmas gifts beginning in 2013. We hope it will become a wonderful family tradition. For years, the six Tucker children, their spouses, and their parents exchanged gifts every Christmas, but in 2012, we decided the gift-giving tradition may need a change since we are all so blessed and in need of truly nothing. We decided we needed to find a better way to celebrate the true Christmas spirit.

We suggested that we each perform acts of service in the name of the sibling whose name we were assigned at random. Our service will be kept a secret until Christmas Day.

Names were drawn for us and and we were notified privately of the person who should inspire our service. On Christmas Day, we reveal who we were given and how we chose to serve by posting our stories on The Tucker Family Season of Service blog.

We hope this tradition will help us focus on serving our communities and each other during the annual celebration of the birth of our Savior Jesus Christ, the Son of God.

We invite you to come back to our blog on Christmas morning to read this year's service.

Wednesday, December 25, 2013

Dear Becca,



I have thought a lot throughout the year about my little sister Becca.  I realize that it has been an especially difficult year with Becca and Todd’s separation.  I realize I walk fine line of getting too personal, but I had an idea.  There are two Wards that share our church building.  The Colfax Ward that we belong to and the Kernersville Ward that I also attend regularly as their High Councilor.  As the Primary President Gina had already had plans of gathering toys, games, clothes, and every day supplies for a battered women and children’s shelter called Family Services of the Piedmont.  They provide a place to stay for women and children who are in need of help.  Let me be clear, I am not stating or implying Becca and Todd’s relationship to be abusive.  So, the situation is not the same; however, there are many women and children out there with no support network to fall back on.  Many arrive at the shelter hungry, broke, and with no possessions.  Our family is extremely blessed to be very close knit and we can depend on and help each other through difficult circumstances.  (I have to be honest: Gina did more work than I did but she let me help out and claim it for my act of service.)   

We put a Christmas tree up in the foyer of our church building.  We then worked with the Bishopric in each Ward and the Primary President in Kernersville to promote this cause.  The Christmas tree was decorated with ornaments that we made that listed items that were needed or desired by the shelter for their constituents.  Ward Members then chose ornaments from the tree.  They would purchase the items/gifts and return them to the Primary President in each Ward.  The gifts were all delivered in early December so the shelter would have plenty of time to assess their needs and what they had available.  We were able to provide two car loads of gifts for the shelter.  Gina kindly took a picture of her carload.  The other Primary President arrived a little later and did not want to take a picture because of the time involved in removing and arranging the items for the picture.  They were very grateful.  It felt very good to help out all those women and children in need who do not have the wonderful support network that we as a family provide for each other in difficult times.  Thank you, Becca for being such a wonderful sister!  Thank you everyone for being such a wonderful and loving family.  Merry Christmas!  

Love,
Scott



1 comment:

  1. Thank you very much. Your act of service is truly wonderful and made me tear up as I read it. Thank you and I know the familys were very grateful for what they recieved.

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